Parents: taking time to remember
“As parents we love our sons and daughters in different and unique ways.
There’s no doubt that parents share something special… something deeper with their children and for each child, it is different. The connection between parents and children can be simple or it may be complex and sometimes it may be both and at the same time; it is intimate and has a loving uniqueness.
It is a parent’s responsibility and unique privilege to bring their child through life the best way that they can and to celebrate their growth and achievements at various rites of passage, such as birthdays and special occasions. The rites of passage not only provide a symbolic gesture, but also a deeper confirmation of love, value and authenticity as a person; they are big moments for the parents and their child.
As parents we work hard at getting our child to this moment… sometimes too hard… sometimes as if that is all that matters. As a parent, you discover that your role is essential and at times frightening.
Parents encourage their child’s desire to understand the world, to use their innate ability and to make the most of their creativity. By showing their unchanging nature of love parents enable their children to learn to aim high, give their best and take time to celebrate achievements - they give their children the confidence to grow and encouragement to dream.
Parents have a responsibility to love and nurture their children, no matter the circumstances.
Children learn that understanding is best with a touch of humility, truth seasoned with love and a caring touch strengthens self-esteem and feelings of connection between loved ones.”
Lessons learned
Parents love their children, nurture their growth, build confidence and encourage self-esteem.
Care for a person with a disability is often focused on specific support needs and a daily routine; it does not replace loving care.
Parents must make beneficial changes for the entire family and somehow make “the good life” happen.